my wife is a damm slob and i'm getting tired of it.

[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

Tell yourself that when she starts to drop the hints..... They ALL want a kid eventually. Right around 25ish.

Not all. Mine still has no interest in having a baby. She is 31 and we have been married for 6 years.

 

[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

you guys didn't read all my posts...i said right now its not that bad because i do understand how the extra weight must feel......but its been like this for seven months....take Monday for example...i had to take off work just to take my son to the dentist because she just wasn't feeling like doing it. So i have to take off 9-10 hours of my well paying job,while she's parked on the couch.

 

[xtremebassjunky 10+ year member]

yeah and it is understandable that it would bother you.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

This is what girl friends are for. They have their own place.

That's what I do.

 

[sundownz Pro Seller]

I suppose it varies... my Mom had my brother no problems, almost died having me. My cousin had a baby and was throwing up for the entire 9 months (extremely rare). My g/f's aunt had a baby and worked at her job in an injection molding plastic factory until about 4 days before the baby was born, went back to work about 4 days after it was born. Seems to vary wildly how it goes.

I imagine it is frustrating to get stuck with all the work, though... but it happens sometimes. She'll probably feel better once the baby is born and she recovers from that... could be a weird hormone imbalance this time.

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

tell her you'd love her if she did shit around the house and put out.

 

[Jameseypoo 5,000+ posts]

I didn't read anything but the title... so sorry if somebody already said this.

You should put a rag and spray bottle in her hands while she's sleeping. That way she'll wake up with it in her hand and maybe start cleaning. When she blames you, call her a liar.

 

[MorningWood]

I didn't read anything but the title... so sorry if somebody already said this.
You should put a rag and spray bottle in her hands while she's sleeping. That way she'll wake up with it in her hand and maybe start cleaning. When she blames you, call her a liar.

James has been MIA.

 

[SethPhillips 5,000+ posts]

no comment....

 

[MorningWood]

no comment....

Very well said young man.

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

Very well said young man.

Probably the most perfectly articulated statement i have ever witnessed him make.

 

[Jameseypoo 5,000+ posts]

James has been MIA.

Mid terms //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

 

[John3000 10+ year member]

Well its been three months since my wife had our daughter, we decided that she should take six months off since its our first and I am putting in extra hours at work. When I come home, the house is still **** dirty and she acts like she cant clean because she has to watch the baby (total B.S.) and then she *****es at me when I sit down trying to relax after a long day of work //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crazy.gif.c13912c32de98515d3142759a824dae7.gif

For all you single guys on here with no kids........................HOLD ON TO IT FOR AS LONG AS YOU CAN!!!!! When your girl does have a kid, wait till you discover POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION, you will want to leave and not come back until that shit passes.

Good luck Bones, I know how you feel and it sux. You just want to yell at her, but it wont help anything. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

 

[buildmeabox 10+ year member]

I can't believe I read every post just to say "at least your getting some bish".

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

Well its been three months since my wife had our daughter, we decided that she should take six months off since its our first and I am putting in extra hours at work. When I come home, the house is still **** dirty and she acts like she cant clean because she has to watch the baby (total B.S.) and then she *****es at me when I sit down trying to relax after a long day of work //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crazy.gif.c13912c32de98515d3142759a824dae7.gif
For all you single guys on here with no kids........................HOLD ON TO IT FOR AS LONG AS YOU CAN!!!!! When your girl does have a kid, wait till you discover POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION, you will want to leave and not come back until that shit passes.

Good luck Bones, I know how you feel and it sux. You just want to yell at her, but it wont help anything. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

I experienced it vicarously at work.

She acts like taking care of a child is a 100% of your time thing. My parents just threw me in a playpen when we where small and she needed to run to the corner store or something.