If you moved from a shithole ghetto to Oklahomo it means you were intimidated by the ghetto and felt unsafe and wanted to flee to a more rural area where you could wear your khakis and sweater vests without being judged.
As a proud black man myself I can tell you this is a fact and I have lived in the ghetto all of my life and have stayed where I was born and raised while attempting to improve the community instead of running away from what I really am.
However if I was a more feminine black man such as yourself who enjoyed listening to Fergie and dressing silly like Farnsworth Bentley I would probably also move to an area I felt less intimidated by also.
Please don't take this as trying to knock you just giving my interpretation as how I see it as I have experienced through the years.
