528hz
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Well...I finally have one of these random *** questions that I thought would be perfect for the CA Lounge Counseling Team.
So I work with this young guy, one of our part-timers who's in his early 20s. He's one of those guys that doesn't know what to do with his life, sort of mislead by his friends, but he's overall a good person.
We were all sitting around talking today about "this girls hot" and "she has a great ***" type of thing, when he starts to go off about this girl he's being steadily seeing for about a month or so. He begins to explain how he really likes this one, and he wants to stop the whole "playa thing." He's begins telling us how beautiful she is, dark hair, blue eyes, ex-college volleyball player the whole nine.
He then gets to the *** evaluation and asks us what we would do if you really wanted to keep this girl around, but, and these are his words verbatium, "She has a very loose ******!" //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif I almost lost it, but I had respect for his concern and feelings of really liking the girl. Now this guy claims he's no small package and so forth which is what the initial assumption was and that he thinks she's been around with the "brothas."
He asks us how he should go about dealing with it:
-should I tell her, "I really like you and all, but you seem a little loose."
-just go along with it since he's so into her and just deal with the fact?
No, this is not me, cause if it were I would just move on, which is what I suggested. I just felt that you guys might have a go at it.
So...
So I work with this young guy, one of our part-timers who's in his early 20s. He's one of those guys that doesn't know what to do with his life, sort of mislead by his friends, but he's overall a good person.
We were all sitting around talking today about "this girls hot" and "she has a great ***" type of thing, when he starts to go off about this girl he's being steadily seeing for about a month or so. He begins to explain how he really likes this one, and he wants to stop the whole "playa thing." He's begins telling us how beautiful she is, dark hair, blue eyes, ex-college volleyball player the whole nine.
He then gets to the *** evaluation and asks us what we would do if you really wanted to keep this girl around, but, and these are his words verbatium, "She has a very loose ******!" //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif I almost lost it, but I had respect for his concern and feelings of really liking the girl. Now this guy claims he's no small package and so forth which is what the initial assumption was and that he thinks she's been around with the "brothas."
He asks us how he should go about dealing with it:
-should I tell her, "I really like you and all, but you seem a little loose."
-just go along with it since he's so into her and just deal with the fact?
No, this is not me, cause if it were I would just move on, which is what I suggested. I just felt that you guys might have a go at it.
So...
