how to say know to a freind

[palikt 10+ year member]

whats up guys..

i have a big prob...me and my girlfreing are getting our own place and its a three bedroom and the thing is that before me and her started goin out her and her freinds were goin to get a place and split the rent...but mow since we are goin out she wants it to be me and her...thats what i want but see hers the prob..

one of our freinds her bf broke up with he and she ask if she can move in...we really dont want her to because we want it to be us only...

so what would you telll your freind if they ask can they move in when you dont want them to..

thanks

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[Aurorav8 10+ year member]

I'd tell them NO.

Pretty simple.

 

[ss3079 5,000+ posts]

"Sorry, I don't think you'd be able to sleep at night with all the racket."

or...

"I'm sorry, but we want it to be just the two of us for a while..."

Seriously...just explain why you dont want them moving in with you...whether it be for personal reasons, privacy, whatever.

What would I tell my friends? "Uhh sorry dude, no can do this time - we want it to be just the two of us for a while...wanna go for a beer?"

- Steve

 

[avistar23 10+ year member]

just tell them truth..say you two would like to live alone...

 

[palikt 10+ year member]

thanks guys that is what i was hoping to hear

 

[Gauntlet 5,000+ posts]

Tell her she can move in as long as she agrees to meet any or all of the following conditions:

1. She agrees to pay for everything. Rent, water, electrical, groceries, the whole kit-n-kaboodle.

2. She agrees to have a threesome with you and your girlfriend at least 3 nights a week.

If she wont'd do any of these, then she's on her own.

 

[BDIDDY 10+ year member]

Tell her no but dont really make up a lie. Dont say no you cant my greatgrandma is moving in. Just say, no we just want it to be us, no hard feelings or anything.

 

[paikiah 5,000+ posts]

Originally posted by Gauntlet Tell her she can move in as long as she agrees to meet any or all of the following conditions:

 

1. She agrees to pay for everything. Rent, water, electrical, groceries, the whole kit-n-kaboodle.

2. She agrees to have a threesome with you and your girlfriend at least 3 nights a week.

 

If she wont'd do any of these, then she's on her own.

and if she's really homeless, you get the threesome anytime you want...

 

[TJD15HC 10+ year member]

Thats a toughy... Just be straight up with her,

"Jennifer (lopeZ //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif ) .... I would like to help you out with shelter, and i would like to help the needy but I would like to get peace without worrying someone might walk in.

Tim