Oh, someone can get hurt from gay-anal (gaynal) ***.4. why don't lot ppl because believe homosexuality is just as wrong as stealin, killin or lyin? is it because you're not technically "hurting" anybody?
now i have some questions:so, i'm sittin here watchin 'montel' and its a show about curing homosexuality. my question(s) are/is:
1.) if ur a man and u never had *** or kissed or did anything intimate with another man or ur a woman and never had *** or kissed or did anything intimate with another woman, how can u call yourself gay?
2.) if u are gay and stop having intimacy with the same *** for the rest of your life, are u still gay?
3.) if Attraction to the same *** makes you gay, what if you become no longer attracted to the same ***, but you keep being intimate with them
"just because"........ are u considered gay?
4. why don't lot ppl because believe homosexuality is just as wrong as stealin, killin or lyin? is it because you're not technically "hurting" anybody?
That was pretty much my point.I don't necessarily disagree with you about asking questions. I will tell you, however, that as white males it is ingrained in us that the mere asking of questions regarding differences in races can, and probably will, be perceived as racist. You may not feel that way but I think it is fair to say that is the reality. Such is the plight of the white man in today's world.
aww shit:laugh:I think a lot of it is somewhere in between personality and biological makeup. So much of the debates in the psychology world right now are centered around the nature/nurture debate. For instance we wonder about serial killers, something motivates them to kill, its an impulse, a behavior, theres something that drives them. But where does this behavior come from? Were they born with a 'gene' that causes this compulsive and violent behavior? Or is it how they were raised? Was it due to abuse? Attachment issues etc. etc.
The truth is we really dont know yet, but such as this can be said for serial killers, it can also be said for people who are depressed, people who like to drive fast, people who like vanilla versus chocolate, people who like big tits... they're all preferences and despite how hard we try to change them most the time theres simply nothing that can be done. You like what you like, you love who you love. And theres nothing wrong with it.... because it is who you are, its your identity, what makes you individual. And i believe strongly that the same thing goes for ****** preference.
Theres just such a stigma because of our culture. People do not like change... for better or for worse. And thats just society. However one thing you can be sure of, is that the can of worms has been opened.
Please dont think i'm making excuses for Decipha or CaLiFoRnIaBoY05