I don't think that there is a "key" to anything other than desire, determination, faith, persistence, etc. etc. Well, maybe there is a certain keys you can use to unlock your mind.
But, there is definitely something going on behind the scenes that if you understood, would change everyone here who perceives economic lack and scarcity.
Now that I think of it, that is exactly why I fell into the position in life I fell into because I didn't want those things in my life. I guess maybe it is just what you will accept and want that dictate your reality before you get pissed and start looking for the answers.
Hey this is great lesson to say the least because I am realizing I am the way I am just because I seek this kind of information. LoL.