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Message: <blockquote data-quote="brandon_s0854" data-source="post: 7959670" data-attributes="member: 623673"><p>I think that about sums it up.  I would make sure that you're both on the same page as what to what marriage means.  I think some women feel that marriage is just another step in this laid-out plan they have for a happy life, and they don't even truly assess whether it's the right thing to do.  Make sure that she understands that marriage isn't going to make problems just disappear and that when you sign that paper, you have to really put work in if/when things go south.  You can't(well you can, but what kind of marriage is that?) just bail because it's easy.  Ask her why she wants to get married.  Why she thinks it's going to solve some of the issues you've mentioned.  Have a real heart to heart with her.  You'll mostly likely end up closer as a result.</p></blockquote><p></p>

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