Cheated on GF

[TC2k15x2 10+ year member]

if you love her, you never would've cheated, drunk or not. Don't try and make excuses, man up and move on. Unless she's stupid enough to forgive you.

That doesnt make sense at all, I know I love her thats all that counts, its a mistake made and hopefully it will just blow over.

 

[MmatsDude 10+ year member]

tell her while you're having *** with her, that way it lessens the pain while she's experiencing pleasure.








or just see how long you can stay on

lol man u guys are funny as hell

yeah dood u should tell her

i would //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 

[TC2k15x2 10+ year member]

Remember Love is an emotion, and if you really love your gf, just because you put your dick in another chick doesnt mean you dont love her any more...People put to much emphasis on ***, a relationship is much more then that..Honestly *** is the weakest part...Tell her that you love her and man up to what you did...Tell her that you are telling her because you understand what you did was wrong and that you will do whatever it takes to make it right....

and of course if she is a ***** about it, just tell her, that the other girl was better then her...

I think you make the most sense out of everyone, I know I love her but shit happens and I feel a little taken advantage of, *****es are so manipulating sometimes.

 

[dragnix 5,000+ posts]

That doesnt make sense at all, I know I love her thats all that counts, its a mistake made and hopefully it will just blow over.

of course it does. What makes you think you love her? It could just be a false perception of love since she's better than other chicks you've been with. If you love her, you never would've cheated, drunk or not.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

Dude, you are 16, who gives a fawk!

My advice is this one will end and you will meet someone else and think the world of the relationship and she will end up breaking your heart............because Karma is a bish!

Then after that, don't fawk up again so Karma don't getcha again.

 

[dragnix 5,000+ posts]

he's 18 //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[bds0688 10+ year member]

Ok well the chick I banged is a good friend of mine and shes like obsessed with me. The reason my gf hates her so much is that there are rumors that I ****ed her like a year ago (and I did) but I told my gf that I didnt (she believes me). Well a month before we started going out i did shit with this other chick and my gf freaked out because we were already doing stuff at this point and it was starting to get serious. Rumors got out about that and finally one night when I got drunk I told her all the shit I did with that other chick, she cried and it wasnt the biggest deal because we werent going out. She was over it and im such a good guy to her all of her friends love me and think we r perfect for each other, and I always tell my boy that I love her and Id never cheat on her (which Ive had plenty oppertunity). So now ive already had to man up to her once and the way I felt when I did that was so horrible because I know I tore her up inside. Just because I ****ed this chick doesnt mean i dont love my gf, I just made a bad mistake but im only human.

So you are not only hiding the fact you did this chick before dating your girl, but then cheated on her with the girl? Either cut your losses with the one who's supposedly "obsessed" and just be with your girl, or face years upon years of more of this bullshit, or your girl saying **** it and leaving.

And if you told him you'd never cheat, don't try to make it seem better with "I've had plenty of opportunity". You did it, and that's all that is going to matter to her. Tell her and move on. Otherwise, she WILL find out. The number of times you resisted doesn't mean shit compared to the single time you didn't.

 

[TC2k15x2 10+ year member]

Dude, you are 16, who gives a fawk!
My advice is this one will end and you will meet someone else and think the world of the relationship and she will end up breaking your heart............because Karma is a bish!

Then after that, don't fawk up again so Karma don't getcha again.

(Not 16) but yea I agree there will be others because sooner or later this wont work out, but at the moment I think shes perfect for me and you never know some people do go all the way.

 

[_DjScrew_ 5,000+ posts]

man up. who cares? she's prolly done the same shit.

 

[brtnboarder3241 5,000+ posts]

LAWL at people saying you actually STILLhave a chance at being with her after you explain..

they are just trying to make you feel better //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

but im sure loling

 

[TC2k15x2 10+ year member]

So you are not only hiding the fact you did this chick before dating your girl, but then cheated on her with the girl? Either cut your losses with the one who's supposedly "obsessed" and just be with your girl, or face years upon years of more of this bullshit, or your girl saying **** it and leaving.
And if you told him you'd never cheat, don't try to make it seem better with "I've had plenty of opportunity". You did it, and that's all that is going to matter to her. Tell her and move on. Otherwise, she WILL find out. The number of times you resisted doesn't mean shit compared to the single time you didn't.

Yea, well the girl I cheated on my gf with just had like an hour long convo on the phone with me, and she says shes going to deny anything ever happened because she knows how bad it will mess me up to loose my gf and she told me she was sorry for doing this to me. (This chick is a freak in bed btw)

 

[TC2k15x2 10+ year member]

man up. who cares? she's prolly done the same shit.

No way bro, hard to believe it but I know for a fact she hasnt. Shes just not that type of girl, thats why im crazy about her.

 

[arkadiy 10+ year member]

This forum has some real dicks.......you ****ed up, tell her what happened and explain it to her. If she goes nuts just let her go and talk to her later after she's calmed down, make sure she has the full story but don't try and push it on her, she might freak out after you first tell her you cheated on her and with who.

If it doesn't end up going good, you're 18, you still have time.

 

[brtnboarder3241 5,000+ posts]

my situation was kinda different my girl and i broke up

she ****ed another guy within 2 weeks(they dated for less than a day)

i really loved her so i took her back a second time

now were not dating...

but i look back at myself and how much i cared about the situation and how much i still wanted to be with her.. lol

that was a joke........

 

[bds0688 10+ year member]

Yea, well the girl I cheated on my gf with just had like an hour long convo on the phone with me, and she says shes going to deny anything ever happened because she knows how bad it will mess me up to loose my gf and she told me she was sorry for doing this to me. (This chick is a freak in bed btw)

Then hide it and await the inevitable nasty break up. I don't really care.