Nope. You said that if a woman dressed a certain way, she deserved to be *****. That is advocating ****. No human should EVER consider **** as "deserved" for ANY reason.
You also said your g/f deserved to be slammed against a wall for throwing a canned good at you, and your sister deserve to be neaten for saying things to your mother.
When you say something is DESERVED, you are advocating for it to happen under what you consider the right circumstances.
Another one of those pesky word definitions: advocate-/ˈadvəˌkāt/ publicly recommend or support.
You support **** and abuse, therefore you ADVOCATE them.