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<blockquote data-quote="Prowler573" data-source="post: 1501141" data-attributes="member: 561023">Yes but not like in full conversations yet... Yes Yes, some of them. There aare some 2 yr olds that are potty-trained but they are in the minority. Dunno what to tell you, my man. Having a kid can be the coolest thing in the world or it can be a total drag. Which end of the spectrum your experience falls on will be largely dependent on your overall attitude of the situation. &quot;man this ****ing sucks&quot; probably isn&#039;t the most constructive way to look at it. Inarguably it makes things less simple when an ex still harbors a grudge.....unfortunately it will be more often than not that one parent or another (when the parents in question are estranged from one another) will use the progeny as a pawn against the other on various things. Ergo: &quot;Well, if you don&#039;t ____________, then you can&#039;t see your child anymore!&quot; - type garbage. Try as hard as you can to prevent that from happening ~ whether or not it&#039;s convenient if the child is yours it is your responsibility to see they get raised well.I know, I know ~ this probably isn&#039;t what you want to hear but it&#039;s truth nonetheless. I&#039;m not bagging on you....just stating fact. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Prowler573, post: 1501141, member: 561023"] Yes but not like in full conversations yet... Yes Yes, some of them. There aare some 2 yr olds that are potty-trained but they are in the minority. Dunno what to tell you, my man. Having a kid can be the coolest thing in the world or it can be a total drag. Which end of the spectrum your experience falls on will be largely dependent on your overall attitude of the situation. "man this ****ing sucks" probably isn't the most constructive way to look at it. Inarguably it makes things less simple when an ex still harbors a grudge.....unfortunately it will be more often than not that one parent or another (when the parents in question are estranged from one another) will use the progeny as a pawn against the other on various things. Ergo: "Well, if you don't ____________, then you can't see your child anymore!" - type garbage. Try as hard as you can to prevent that from happening ~ whether or not it's convenient if the child is yours it is your responsibility to see they get raised well. I know, I know ~ this probably isn't what you want to hear but it's truth nonetheless. I'm not bagging on you....just stating fact. [IMG]//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif[/IMG] [/QUOTE]

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