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<blockquote data-quote="BooLeaN" data-source="post: 420873" data-attributes="member: 550867">You keep saying that you have wasted 4.5 years of your life.&nbsp; I have a question for you.&nbsp; When your parents die (assuming they die before you) and say you are 45 years old.&nbsp; Would you then say that you wasted 45 years of your life?? Absolutely not.The point is that life is all about memories.&nbsp; If you had a good time for 4.5 years then keep it that way.&nbsp; End it now, remember how great it WAS and go on.&nbsp; There is NO REASON for thinking that any of your life was a waste.&nbsp; If you hated being with her then you would have left.&nbsp; There WAS some sort of enjoyment so it was worth it.My good friend went through a bad break up and I tried to tell him the same, he was depressed, on medication and all that.&nbsp; I finally got him to understand.Hope I make some sense to you too.Life goes on,Craig G</blockquote>

[QUOTE="BooLeaN, post: 420873, member: 550867"] You keep saying that you have wasted 4.5 years of your life. I have a question for you. When your parents die (assuming they die before you) and say you are 45 years old. Would you then say that you wasted 45 years of your life?? Absolutely not. The point is that life is all about memories. If you had a good time for 4.5 years then keep it that way. End it now, remember how great it WAS and go on. There is NO REASON for thinking that any of your life was a waste. If you hated being with her then you would have left. There WAS some sort of enjoyment so it was worth it. My good friend went through a bad break up and I tried to tell him the same, he was depressed, on medication and all that. I finally got him to understand. Hope I make some sense to you too. Life goes on, Craig G [/QUOTE]

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