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<blockquote data-quote="Breogan24" data-source="post: 420451" data-attributes="member: 553032">Good luck with whatever you decide. I have been with my girl for 4 yrs. I just turned 23, so as you can imagine at this age it&#039;s tough(especially with all that tempataion out there)Well like yourself we often fought about really stupid sh#t. One day (about 3 months ago), i got fed up and told her to leave. After that i really regreted it. You see the toughest part is getting over her. It&#039;s true that nothing gets you over the last, like the next. But you have to decide if you want a next, or stay with the last. There were things about her i couldn&#039;t stand. But i thought about it, and really came to this conclusion: You have to accept her for what she is. Is she worth keeping despite what you don&#039;t like about her? I mean maybe there are bad things about her, but what about the good things? I don&#039;t think you can find someone that is perfect. So I got back with her after a couple of time-out weeks, and things have gotten much better. I have decided that the things i don&#039;t like about her, i would have to accept. Of course to a point, and other things we compromised on. Relationships are tough, and I know what you mean about the whole, 4.5 years and have nothing to show for it concept. I feel the same way if I were to end it now. But remember this, you need to be happy. There is only one life, and it is better to quit now, rather than keep dragging it out and be unhappy. Whats worse, 4.5 years or 6 years? Think it through, and only YOU can decide. If people say stay or dump her, don&#039;t listen because they are not there to see the big picture. Maybe some local free counceling can help you guys. AGain, good luck //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Breogan24, post: 420451, member: 553032"] Good luck with whatever you decide. I have been with my girl for 4 yrs. I just turned 23, so as you can imagine at this age it's tough(especially with all that tempataion out there) Well like yourself we often fought about really stupid sh#t. One day (about 3 months ago), i got fed up and told her to leave. After that i really regreted it. You see the toughest part is getting over her. It's true that nothing gets you over the last, like the next. But you have to decide if you want a next, or stay with the last. There were things about her i couldn't stand. But i thought about it, and really came to this conclusion: You have to accept her for what she is. Is she worth keeping despite what you don't like about her? I mean maybe there are bad things about her, but what about the good things? I don't think you can find someone that is perfect. So I got back with her after a couple of time-out weeks, and things have gotten much better. I have decided that the things i don't like about her, i would have to accept. Of course to a point, and other things we compromised on. Relationships are tough, and I know what you mean about the whole, 4.5 years and have nothing to show for it concept. I feel the same way if I were to end it now. But remember this, you need to be happy. There is only one life, and it is better to quit now, rather than keep dragging it out and be unhappy. Whats worse, 4.5 years or 6 years? Think it through, and only YOU can decide. If people say stay or dump her, don't listen because they are not there to see the big picture. Maybe some local free counceling can help you guys. AGain, good luck [IMG]//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif[/IMG] [/QUOTE]

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