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<blockquote data-quote="KARLEON" data-source="post: 420399" data-attributes="member: 541893">Ok lets see if you guys know relationships like you do audio...Basically, i been with my girl well ex girlfriend for 4.5 years. In my opinion, thats a long time. Recently we broke up. Im not going to lie, things was not good at all. We fused all the time. And it was mainly about little stuff. And i feel like the break up was soooooo stupid. But there was some big issues we also had, and i basically felt like i was holding up the relationship by myself and i didnt think that was fair. I felt like she made alot of decisions that wasnt the best for our relationship but i would find some way to blame myself because i hated just blaming no one but her. It made it seem&nbsp; like i was just puttin everything on her. And now that im not with her, i dont see how it wasnt ALL on her. I guess i was tryna play the good boyfriend role and make it seem like it was something we both could do, when in actuality it was just her. But i guess im stuck on the 4.5 years thing. I felt like i invested soooooo much into that relationship and i have nothing to show for it. So i guess i just want opinions what should i try to get back with her and make things better, or do you think its better just to stay apart. As i said, things werent good at all, but i felt like they could be better if she started making those decisions that was in good interest of our relationship.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="KARLEON, post: 420399, member: 541893"] Ok lets see if you guys know relationships like you do audio... Basically, i been with my girl well ex girlfriend for 4.5 years. In my opinion, thats a long time. Recently we broke up. Im not going to lie, things was not good at all. We fused all the time. And it was mainly about little stuff. And i feel like the break up was soooooo stupid. But there was some big issues we also had, and i basically felt like i was holding up the relationship by myself and i didnt think that was fair. I felt like she made alot of decisions that wasnt the best for our relationship but i would find some way to blame myself because i hated just blaming no one but her. It made it seem like i was just puttin everything on her. And now that im not with her, i dont see how it wasnt ALL on her. I guess i was tryna play the good boyfriend role and make it seem like it was something we both could do, when in actuality it was just her. But i guess im stuck on the 4.5 years thing. I felt like i invested soooooo much into that relationship and i have nothing to show for it. So i guess i just want opinions what should i try to get back with her and make things better, or do you think its better just to stay apart. As i said, things werent good at all, but i felt like they could be better if she started making those decisions that was in good interest of our relationship. [/QUOTE]

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