My Wifes Family...

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

Eventfull weekend.....Saturday was my wifes 20th birthday.....

Facebooks is amazing......

My wifes not "EVER" had a chance to talk to her real father. She had only 1 pic of him her whole life. Her mom talks a bunch of **** about him saying he ran out on them and did a whole **** load of stuff. Turns out "she took him to court for a divorce, and he told her in the court room that he would get custidy of his daughter one way or another, and her mom took her and ran. I cant really get into it more than that. And her moms side of family telling my wife he's probly dead and stuff. On saturday she got a random friend request from a random guy. It actually turned out to be her brother (who she also had never met but was her real fathers son). And 20 mins later a girl adds my wife(its her step sister who shes never met) and her profile pic is her step sister & her dad. So to make a long story short her dad finaly found her and they got to well sorta meet for the first time in 19 yrs.

Gota love facebook....

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[Louisiana_CRX 5,000+ posts]

pics //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

they only got to talk on the phone. we going to fly to tucson Az,were he lives and then we will have some pics

 

[Buck 5,000+ posts]

That's messed up, yo. I don't really believe in facebook overall but it's cool for your situation.

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

yea i aint big about facebook that much myself. i do have one but its whatever. but for her facebook was the deciding factor

 

[i2ain2thunder 10+ year member]

You're Wife's Mom is a crazy bish, but you prob already knew that all along.

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

man..... you have no idea... i knew that from day one. she a horder. she has like 37 cats... shes a drunk.... and has the common sense of a

"STACK OF NICKELS".... shes slow

 

[Nut Hair Trick 10+ year member]

Sounds like my wife's story with her dad exactly, except her dad did run off on them.//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/sneaky.gif.7189749b3a3f769e8815b47e8ae87f88.gif Her mom is one crazy bish as well and has been married 4 times since that dood.

 

[Louisiana_CRX 5,000+ posts]

all b*tches are crazy some just hide it better than others.... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

all the **** her mom said about her dad is crazy. personal stuff. it kinda made me mad at the dude. because from view he wasnt there so i thought he was a ****.

but turns out he had been looking for her 18yrs but didnt know were they went. oh man her is really ******* up my wife now. her mom doesnt know that she knows the truth yet. her moms fam is having a get together this weeknd to... my wife is pissed so i think this is gonna be a funny weeknd. i may have to kick her moms bros *** if he says any thing slick to her... this should ne fun

 

[09Alti 10+ year member]

all b*tches are crazy some just hide it better than others.... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

this

 

[ace_800 5,000+ posts]

I'm in Tucson, hit me up if you need any info.

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

I'm in Tucson, hit me up if you need any info.

kew.. this *****. its been a while since i been on a plane.. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/uhoh.gif.c07307dd22ee7e63e22fc8e9c614d1fd.gif

 

[i2ain2thunder 10+ year member]

LOL yeah that'll make for a good family get-to-gether, hope theres drinks involved too //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

LOL yeah that'll make for a good family get-to-gether, hope theres drinks involved too //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

yea ima drink something lmao.... he drinks to so i know he gonna say something smart to her

 

[Bohemian 10+ year member]

You're Wife's Mom is a crazy bish, but you prob already knew that all along.

There are always two stories in divorce and the truth is usually far from either story.

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

There are always two stories in divorce and the truth is usually far from either story.

he has a son(her bro) said that never happened that way her bro was 16yrs at the time hes 14 yrs older then my wife.

 

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he said her took her and fled

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

she took her

 

[Bohemian 10+ year member]

he has a son(her bro) said that never happened that way her bro was 16yrs at the time hes 14 yrs older then my wife. 

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he said her took her and fled

I wouldn't make judgment on either side. He probably heard what his dad told him, no more. I have a lot of experience in the area and know it is hardly ever that one-sided. Of course it could be, it does happen. I just wouldn't take anyone's side on it and believe it at face value. Instead I would look past all of it and consider it history at this point. The finger pointing and blaming will do nothing constructive, in fact is probably the finger pointing that caused it all. Just build solid relationships now and forgive, forget the past.

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

if thats the case with finger pointing her moms doing the pointing saying everything about her father.. he hasnt talked a bit of **** about her... idk all of it. but i know her moms a drunk and compulsive liar. if caught her on many so many times it aint funny.....