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<blockquote data-quote="Exist_ential" data-source="post: 7764146" data-attributes="member: 640205">haha far from a hypocrite man. i never said it was ok for him (or anyone) to turn to drugs for comfort, been there done that. had i not had a kid when i did i would be dead by now and it was his birth that brought back my faith. it was the death of my father 15 yrs prior that caused me to lose it in the first place. all i am trying to say is that certain comments are for a certain time and certain things should be expressed in private. if he wanted to call me and discuss how he is feeling about all of this and wanted my advice on how to deal i would give it to him in a second. However, i would go about it in a way that doesnt try to force my beliefs on him but that allows him the opportunity to deal with his internal conflicts in a healthy manner. Only in this way will he either see the light and maybe get his faith back or he may never get his faith back but at least he will deal with his personal demons in a non-destructive way.[USER=611718]@disturbed471985[/USER] if you need anything even just to yell and scream and curse 724-413-6938. i don&amp;#39;t even need to say a word if it will help. same goes for anyone really, there is nothing worse than not having someone to vent to when life kicks you in the nuts....over and over and over</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Exist_ential, post: 7764146, member: 640205"] haha far from a hypocrite man. i never said it was ok for him (or anyone) to turn to drugs for comfort, been there done that. had i not had a kid when i did i would be dead by now and it was his birth that brought back my faith. it was the death of my father 15 yrs prior that caused me to lose it in the first place. all i am trying to say is that certain comments are for a certain time and certain things should be expressed in private. if he wanted to call me and discuss how he is feeling about all of this and wanted my advice on how to deal i would give it to him in a second. However, i would go about it in a way that doesnt try to force my beliefs on him but that allows him the opportunity to deal with his internal conflicts in a healthy manner. Only in this way will he either see the light and maybe get his faith back or he may never get his faith back but at least he will deal with his personal demons in a non-destructive way. [USER=611718]@disturbed471985[/USER] if you need anything even just to yell and scream and curse 724-413-6938. i don't even need to say a word if it will help. same goes for anyone really, there is nothing worse than not having someone to vent to when life kicks you in the nuts....over and over and over [/QUOTE]

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