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<blockquote data-quote="3onDubs" data-source="post: 2424466" data-attributes="member: 566593">Do you have kids saywhat?I can tell you personally that when a woman is pregnant, the guy is also just as involved (unless he&#039;s a heartless crackhead).&nbsp; During those 9 months (especially if it&#039;s the guy&#039;s first kid) the dad just sits there and wonders how the baby will like, how he will turn out, what kinds of things will he like, etc......the bond starts before the baby is born.&nbsp; To give up one&#039;s first born isn&#039;t just a saying, it&#039;s a very difficult thing to do....something that you would only do if you truly cared for the child&#039;s well-being over your own.....and it&#039;s not like he gave the child to some random adoption agency.&nbsp; He will still be able to see and visit the child.And i&#039;m sure the pregnancy wasn&#039;t planned....even with condoms and birth control, pregnancy can still happen.&nbsp; It&#039;s not like he say there and said, &quot;hey, im bored, lets have a kid so we can give it up later&quot;....it&#039;s one of those things that just happens and a selfish person would just go out and have an abortion....a caring person on the other hand wouldn&#039;t take the child&#039;s life.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="3onDubs, post: 2424466, member: 566593"] Do you have kids saywhat? I can tell you personally that when a woman is pregnant, the guy is also just as involved (unless he's a heartless crackhead). During those 9 months (especially if it's the guy's first kid) the dad just sits there and wonders how the baby will like, how he will turn out, what kinds of things will he like, etc......the bond starts before the baby is born. To give up one's first born isn't just a saying, it's a very difficult thing to do....something that you would only do if you truly cared for the child's well-being over your own.....and it's not like he gave the child to some random adoption agency. He will still be able to see and visit the child. And i'm sure the pregnancy wasn't planned....even with condoms and birth control, pregnancy can still happen. It's not like he say there and said, "hey, im bored, lets have a kid so we can give it up later"....it's one of those things that just happens and a selfish person would just go out and have an abortion....a caring person on the other hand wouldn't take the child's life. [/QUOTE]

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