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<blockquote data-quote="Gauntlet" data-source="post: 237265" data-attributes="member: 545529"><p>It&#039;s been my experience that the good majority of people change after the College life.....and after being apart for such a long time, things may seem incredibly different than they used to be......instead of feeling sad over the situation, be happy that both of you are progressing in life and are becoming succesful adults. After all, true love is putting the other persons happiness ahead of yours....if it was really meant to be, things will work out in the end. And if they don&#039;t, be thankful for the memories you two have together, and I&#039;m sure both of you have learned a lot from one another, so you have to be happy about that. The best advice I can give is not to feel depressed and full of self-pity....I went through the same thing my first year of College...when we both came back for the Summer, it was supposed to be the &quot;best Summer ever&quot;, but things just felt akward. Both of us changed a lot during College, and things just didn&#039;t work out. I had to take what I learned in the relationship to make the next one better. It hurt like hell for a long time, but you learn to grow past it, and when you do, life will be better than it was before.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Gauntlet, post: 237265, member: 545529"] It's been my experience that the good majority of people change after the College life.....and after being apart for such a long time, things may seem incredibly different than they used to be......instead of feeling sad over the situation, be happy that both of you are progressing in life and are becoming succesful adults. After all, true love is putting the other persons happiness ahead of yours....if it was really meant to be, things will work out in the end. And if they don't, be thankful for the memories you two have together, and I'm sure both of you have learned a lot from one another, so you have to be happy about that. The best advice I can give is not to feel depressed and full of self-pity....I went through the same thing my first year of College...when we both came back for the Summer, it was supposed to be the "best Summer ever", but things just felt akward. Both of us changed a lot during College, and things just didn't work out. I had to take what I learned in the relationship to make the next one better. It hurt like hell for a long time, but you learn to grow past it, and when you do, life will be better than it was before. [/QUOTE]

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