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Message: <blockquote data-quote="denim" data-source="post: 85782" data-attributes="member: 545441">Hey 91 I can comletely understand what you are going through, it has happened to me a few times,  but I have to speak from experience on this one, if you go and keep trying to get her back she is just going to push her self farther away, I know believe me it is very hard to do but the best thing for you and for her and even if you want a chance at haveing her back, you need to give her sometime and not be "up in her grill" I know deep down you initial reaction is that you just want to go be with her and do what ever you can to get her back, but that is not always the most rational decision, and I knwo that maybe you might not be in the most rational state now, give it some time, if you see her every day or try to it is only going to hurt that much more but you need to start to get used to the fact that you might be with her, so try to go out with your friends and do fun things that will get your mind off of her, I mean like what are your favorite hobbies? like what is something that you have not done in a while that you miss doing? something like that will help you, and this may sound twisted but I did this before with a girl that wanted "some space" and I said ok, and I did not call I did not write or email or try to go out with her, after about 2 weeks she started to see me out with friends haveing a good time and she realized that she missed all the fun times we had togethor so soI kinda pretended like I did not need her any more and I think she was expecting me to try to get her back so she could justify to her self that she diod not need me but when I did not fall into her plan and I went on like nothing had happened she wanted me back more than she had wanted me in the first place, I hope that makes some sense, if you need people to talk to we are her for ya buddy dont stress it you will get through it</blockquote>

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