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Message: <blockquote data-quote="boomsta" data-source="post: 338414" data-attributes="member: 550210">well shit happens in relationships, you knock some girl you hardly know up or shes just a ***** but hot. But whatever you do dont be a dead beat dad (meaning having nothing to do with your kid) that shit really ****s with the kid. I have been with my girl for five years now. We have broken up occasionally but we get back together. But the thing is she has a kid from some other guy before me and her had a kid together, his name is Jordan and his dad has seen Jordan 7 times......In court. thats it. At about five (ive noticed this with other kids in this situation as well) ask wheres their dad, why doesnt he love me like all his friends dads why he doesnt want to see him and stuff, and its sad cause Jordan thinks theres something wrong with him and thats why his dad doesnt want to see him. It makes me want to cry and beat the **** out of the punk *****, when i think about how Jordan gets heart broken when its parents day at any events at his school where parents come. He just doesnt know why his dad doesnt love him or even like him. ****ing if you dont pay child support at least let him know you love them, send him a card talk to them on the phone say hi tell them that you do care about them and you do love them. Its not his fault you cant pay Child support or that shes a ***** and you dont want anythingto do with her.well hes eight now and I'm his dad and he has accepted the fact that i am the only father he will ever have. Even when we're broke up or something i still stay in touch with him and let him know that he's my son now and nothing will ever change that causehes a great little boy. So if you have a kid and you dont want to pay child support thats fine but at least have the balls to let your kid know you dont hate him and that theres nothig wrong with him. I mean how would you feel if your dad never liked you enough to even say hi or cared enough to try and talk to you. Its sad when you think about a little kid whos trying to figure out life and thinks that theres something wrong with him.Forget everything else and be there for him in some way. Dead beat dads are usually confused and scared that they will be hated or *****ed at but your kids need to know that its not them thats the problem. I mean shit if you never met your dad i'm sure you'd want to knowwho he was, or something about him. Alli can say is i never talk bad about his dad cause Jordan has a connection with him being that it is his sperm donor that made him and he wants to know what hes like if hes a cool guy or something. So let him know who you are and that situations are bad or something but let him know you do care.okay im done preaching</blockquote>

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