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<blockquote data-quote="Eugenics" data-source="post: 4782878" data-attributes="member: 562095">Thats normal.&nbsp; I&#039;ve been through the same thing in past relationships.&nbsp; You think about her being with another guy, and it just kills you.&nbsp; This time around though, i just wished her the best, even though she screwed me over bad.&nbsp; And its been so much easier.It&#039;s not worth it to be the victim.&nbsp; Yes, it didn&#039;t work out how you wanted, but its a lot better than being married and/or having a kid when you find out things aren&#039;t going to go the way you thought they should.&nbsp; All you can do is be optimistic.&nbsp; Don&#039;t let her be the enemy, dont let this ruin you.&nbsp; Just move on.&nbsp; Out of two billion people, you ought to be able to find someone.&nbsp; Someone better for you.&nbsp; Nobody ever said it was easy, but there is no reason to lose your trail over the notion of being alone for some time.I have been so much happier now.&nbsp; Because i can do whatever i want, whenever i want, however i want.&nbsp; I&#039;m not trying to be Mr. Baker anymore.&nbsp; I&#039;m just me.&nbsp; And i&#039;ll find someone who likes me for exactly who i am, no concessions.&nbsp; It&#039;ll work out better too.&nbsp; I&#039;ve learned now, what i like more.&nbsp; What suits me even better.&nbsp; And should the next relationship fail, it will only serve as a lesson-- too refine me even more.&nbsp; No sense being a loser in the game my friend.&nbsp; Take what you can, and leave the rest for the next one.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Eugenics, post: 4782878, member: 562095"] Thats normal. I've been through the same thing in past relationships. You think about her being with another guy, and it just kills you. This time around though, i just wished her the best, even though she screwed me over bad. And its been so much easier. It's not worth it to be the victim. Yes, it didn't work out how you wanted, but its a lot better than being married and/or having a kid when you find out things aren't going to go the way you thought they should. All you can do is be optimistic. Don't let her be the enemy, dont let this ruin you. Just move on. Out of two billion people, you ought to be able to find someone. Someone better for you. Nobody ever said it was easy, but there is no reason to lose your trail over the notion of being alone for some time. I have been so much happier now. Because i can do whatever i want, whenever i want, however i want. I'm not trying to be Mr. Baker anymore. I'm just me. And i'll find someone who likes me for exactly who i am, no concessions. It'll work out better too. I've learned now, what i like more. What suits me even better. And should the next relationship fail, it will only serve as a lesson-- too refine me even more. No sense being a loser in the game my friend. Take what you can, and leave the rest for the next one. [/QUOTE]

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