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<blockquote data-quote="bikejunkie223" data-source="post: 2242471" data-attributes="member: 563147">I haven&#039;t read al the posts, but here is my 2 cents: You aren&#039;t sure if you want a child. That tells you something right there, it isn&#039;t a decision you can take back if it doesn&#039;t work out. Have you achieved all you want in your career/school/fun yet? A kid will put a serious friggin damper on any of those things and really make your life more difficult and definetely strain your relationship and likely strangle your earning potential, not to mention forcing you to give up being a young adult that gets to party and have fun. I am not saying having the child won&#039;t be rewarding, I&#039;m sure it will, but I am also sure it will forever alter your life and whether that alteration is good or not depends on if you are ready for it- sounds to me like you are not. Also, for chrissakes wear a rubber every goddam time! and she really should be on an oral contraceptive as well. That is the only way to be sure, I refuse to believe the whole &quot;oops we had an accident and now I&#039;m preggo!&quot; She is now pregnant because neither of you made the effort to prevent it. Good luck bro- either way you are gonna need it. Personally, I&#039;d go for the abortion. Statistically it is highly unlikely you two will be together 10 years from now and if she has that kid the worst case senario is that you end up playing the part of John Q Wallet for 18 years while she teaches the child what an a-hole you are and spends the child support cash you are obligated to give her on her new loser boyfriend or shoes, and you can&#039;t even afford to go to school and get a high paying job because you are crushed under the financial obligations and forced to work some shitty job to make ends meet. Please don&#039;t make the other retarded mistake so many do- don&#039;t marry this chick just because you slipped a few swimmers past the goalie- two bad decisions don&#039;t make either a good one.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="bikejunkie223, post: 2242471, member: 563147"] I haven't read al the posts, but here is my 2 cents: You aren't sure if you want a child. That tells you something right there, it isn't a decision you can take back if it doesn't work out. Have you achieved all you want in your career/school/fun yet? A kid will put a serious friggin damper on any of those things and really make your life more difficult and definetely strain your relationship and likely strangle your earning potential, not to mention forcing you to give up being a young adult that gets to party and have fun. I am not saying having the child won't be rewarding, I'm sure it will, but I am also sure it will forever alter your life and whether that alteration is good or not depends on if you are ready for it- sounds to me like you are not. Also, for chrissakes wear a rubber [I]every goddam time![/I] and she really should be on an oral contraceptive as well. That is the only way to be sure, I refuse to believe the whole "oops we had an accident and now I'm preggo!" She is now pregnant because neither of you made the effort to prevent it. Good luck bro- either way you are gonna need it. Personally, I'd go for the abortion. Statistically it is highly unlikely you two will be together 10 years from now and if she has that kid the worst case senario is that you end up playing the part of John Q Wallet for 18 years while she teaches the child what an a-hole you are and spends the child support cash you are obligated to give her on her new loser boyfriend or shoes, and you can't even afford to go to school and get a high paying job because you are crushed under the financial obligations and forced to work some shitty job to make ends meet. Please don't make the other retarded mistake so many do- don't marry this chick just because you slipped a few swimmers past the goalie- two bad decisions don't make either a good one. [/QUOTE]

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