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<blockquote data-quote="Dozy_production" data-source="post: 2241341" data-attributes="member: 561645">Well i was dating this girl for about 2 years. We used birth control and condoms. In the last months together I didnt use condoms as much. Well that was about 3 months ago we split. I havent seen her or talked to her since but her mother called me only three&nbsp; weeks ago telling me she is was getting an abortion.Pretty sure it was my kid and holly god **** in hell do i feel really under the weather to this day.&nbsp; Its a miserable feeling, and dont judge me on this but i look and see that im living in an apartment with 5 other room mates, living from paycheck to paycheck, being a full time college student, and both of our family&#039;s being broke... well i dont think it would be a right enviroment to raise a child. My ex and I arent really on speaking terms, and still arent, amazingly (which of course is her decision)These arent excuses to having the abortion but i dont think it would be the best thing for the kid to live knowing he was adopted or that his parents have been seperated before his birth.&nbsp; Do i feel guilty?&nbsp; yes i do. Do i regret my decision... well looking at my circumstances... not totally.I havent read through the 11 pages of all that... just want to bear my testimonial. Is it murder? Yes it is. Is abortion wrong... in my idea it is only wrong when its a casual form of birthcontrol. If there is no lesson learned from the first incident then yes abortion is the wrong way to go. I knew i wasnt ready for the kid, and sure in hell i know my ex wasn&#039;t. I dont think i could of lived with the adoption or with supporting the kid. Some how i dont know how im living with the abortion. Not too well at the moment.Good luck,adam</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Dozy_production, post: 2241341, member: 561645"] Well i was dating this girl for about 2 years. We used birth control and condoms. In the last months together I didnt use condoms as much. Well that was about 3 months ago we split. I havent seen her or talked to her since but her mother called me only three weeks ago telling me she is was getting an abortion. Pretty sure it was my kid and holly god **** in hell do i feel really under the weather to this day. Its a miserable feeling, and dont judge me on this but i look and see that im living in an apartment with 5 other room mates, living from paycheck to paycheck, being a full time college student, and both of our family's being broke... well i dont think it would be a right enviroment to raise a child. My ex and I arent really on speaking terms, and still arent, amazingly (which of course is her decision) These arent excuses to having the abortion but i dont think it would be the best thing for the kid to live knowing he was adopted or that his parents have been seperated before his birth. Do i feel guilty? yes i do. Do i regret my decision... well looking at my circumstances... not totally. I havent read through the 11 pages of all that... just want to bear my testimonial. Is it murder? Yes it is. Is abortion wrong... in my idea it is only wrong when its a casual form of birthcontrol. If there is no lesson learned from the first incident then yes abortion is the wrong way to go. I knew i wasnt ready for the kid, and sure in hell i know my ex wasn't. I dont think i could of lived with the adoption or with supporting the kid. Some how i dont know how im living with the abortion. Not too well at the moment. Good luck, adam [/QUOTE]

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