i know of a guy that does great installs. i trust his judgement 100% and to me, a person that doesnt even let his girlfriend touch his car keys is saying something. decent pricing as well. probably free today if you get the message in time. 303-480-8200 leave me a message with your number and...
take it to a shop.
because your not a DIYer you said it yourself. you would spend more money and more time trying to do it yourself and messing up than to pay a shop to do it right quickly the 1st time.
that car is definately totalled.
unibody damage, u need new fenders, hood, headlights, bumper, bumper reinforcement, bumper impact material, paint, fit and finish and a lot more. just from a quick glance...