thinking about marriage...

[Hintzyboy 5,000+ posts]

and for gosh sakes, it's ca.com and nobody has said it???




PIITB

QFT

 

[Rookie_80 10+ year member]

well, my girlfriend and i have been dating for 9 months now. we met at school (texas a&m univ), she's now going to be a sophmore and i'm going to be a junior. we've had our share of problems but we ALWAYS sort them out the next day. we can never get enough of each other, and i love her to death.
anyways, we went out to eat tonight and came back to her house and she said 'i want to marry you'. well, i've known for a while that she's 'the one' and its just a matter of when she realizes it too. we talked about it for a little while. i didn't want to freak her out or anything but she said she doesn't even want to be engaged until shes like a senior in college, meaning around 21-22 years old...

this has me thinking, why put an age limit on something like this? i understand wanting to be out of college to get married and i'm totally for that but the thought of even getting engaged seems out of the question to her.

i know i'm being a little rash w my decision making but i'm just a little confused as to how someone can say 'i want to marry you' but yet NOT want to even think about getting engaged?

anyways, what are yalls thoughts?

Aggie? or A&M in Dallas?

anyways don marry yet (too young, enjoy the life) but don cut her lose as well.

keep on dating her (tough to find educated girls these days)

IMO

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

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enough with the whining, eat some cheese wisconsin boy

 

[joetama 5,000+ posts]

she thinks it will be painful and is absolutely PARANOID about having kids. she thought she was pregnant a couple months ago, even though we NEVER had *** sooooo yeah haha.

Red Flag much?

I think there would be bells going off in my head if that happened to me.

"WRRRRAAARRRPPP WRRRRAAARRRPPPP Danger Danger WRRRRAAARRRPPP"

wtf??? sounds like1) she's cheating

2) she's psycho

Truth...

saving n00bs from teh female pwnage since '96 (or whatever)

Very much the truth...

 

[joetama 5,000+ posts]

i actually read that people who get married younger are generally happier and have a lower divorce rate too.

Proof?

 

[lilmaniac2 5,000+ posts]

wtf??? sounds like1) she's cheating

2) she's psycho

WORD

 

[Hintzyboy 5,000+ posts]

enough with the whining, eat some cheese wisconsin boy

how is posting "quoted for truth" whining? Besides, I just had some cheese

 

[TurdFergueson2 5,000+ posts]

you guys are right, i don't know what i was thinking last night hah!
i love her dearly and i still do think she's the one for me but yall are right, i have plenty of time.

we've practically lived together for the last half year and we see each other literally every day. we do get in fights, but i think we both know we are gonna be together forever, so we are almost obligated to get back together hah.

btw, no *** ftl //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

NO ***??????????? So you don't know what you'll be married to. She could be a ***** in the sack, or you might not ever get none. I hate to be like *** is the single most important thing, but if you getting your toes curled up in the morning and before you go to bed, you are less likely to want to cheat. Same with her. If you got her scratching up your back twice a day, she is less likely to get the wandering eye. Then you have to continue to keep that part fresh. You might have all the money and love for her in the world, but you are a man first and foremost.

Just do like I said earlier and let her know that you want to try every dirty fantasy you ever had with her. Tell her that you want no reason to ever want to look at another woman. She'll get the picture. If she doesn't she's not the one. I mean everything else can be worked on. You in school, so money hopefully wont be an issue. Unless you took up Western Civilization or some shit. I'm telling you, make sure you have a strong ****** chemistry or you will be regretting all of the years you spent with her.

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

get through college ..
Get your careers going ..

If your still together by then ..

Then decide to pop the question ..

x2

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

she thinks it will be painful and is absolutely PARANOID about having kids. she thought she was pregnant a couple months ago, even though we NEVER had *** sooooo yeah haha.

since ur both in college and both fairly educated already that means both of you know how a kid is conceive. therefore what im getting at is that if she thought she was pregnant and youve never had *** maybe she just isnt having *** with you ha ha

sorry i had to say it since once again no one else did......ca.com is letting us all down. no "put it in the butt" or shes cheating on you accusations.....somethings wrong.

 

[TurdFergueson2 5,000+ posts]

since ur both in college and both fairly educated already that means both of you know how a kid is conceive. therefore what im getting at is that if she thought she was pregnant and youve never had *** maybe she just isnt having *** with you ha ha
sorry i had to say it since once again no one else did......ca.com is letting us all down. no "put it in the butt" or shes cheating on you accusations.....somethings wrong.

I wont quote my own post, but I did mention *** play as well as him showing us a pic. the OP did not come through.

Maybe she has the herp and does not wanna give it to you. thoughtful of her

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

how is posting "quoted for truth" whining? Besides, I just had some cheese

lawlz, i thought that meant "Quit Fukkin Talking".

so it's june now, is snow season almost over in wisconsin? (i used to live there, curious)

 

[mackin 10+ year member]

lawlz, i thought that meant "Quit Fukkin Talking".
so it's june now, is snow season almost over in wisconsin? (i used to live there, curious)

lol apparently you haven't lived there for quite a while. 70 and 80 degree weather. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/cool.gif.3bcaf8f141236c00f8044d07150e34f7.gif

i would assume wisconsin is no different.

 

[ngsm13 5,000+ posts]

DONT RUIN YOUR LIFE:crap://content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif:crap://content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif:crap://content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif:crap://content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif:crap://content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

QFT.

nG

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

sorry i had to say it since once again no one else did......ca.com is letting us all down. no "put it in the butt" or shes cheating on you accusations.....somethings wrong.

??? I covered both bases! Read back a lil bit, i've got tradition held strong.