thinking about marriage...

[cpierce 5,000+ posts]

she is actually being intelligent about it. You guys are far too young to be thinking of marriage. You have not experienced much of the real world at this time. I was married young and was far too immature to know what i really wanted out of life. If you are ok w/ marrying her now, what difference would a few years make? why the hurry? enjoy life as it is now and let things develop. live together for a few yrs then make your decision.

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[ssj2xxgotenxx 10+ year member]

they are also from a different era. times were different back then, people actually viewed marriage as a life long choice back then. not a im committed till its too hard then we divorce.

50% divorce rate its pretty high. You owe it to your future potential children to take the necessary time ensure this girl is for you. I say that coming from a broken home.

 

[954runner 10+ year member]

you guys are right, i don't know what i was thinking last night hah!

i love her dearly and i still do think she's the one for me but yall are right, i have plenty of time.

we've practically lived together for the last half year and we see each other literally every day. we do get in fights, but i think we both know we are gonna be together forever, so we are almost obligated to get back together hah.

btw, no *** ftl //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

 

[kovemaster559 5,000+ posts]

50% divorce rate its pretty high. You owe it to your future potential children to take the necessary time ensure this girl is for you. I say that coming from a broken home.

X2 also dont go on looks alone make sure the chick you get is perfect in every aspect

 

[reid1boys 10+ year member]

Im 38 and got married at 18, she was 19. We now have 4 beautiful daughters (oldest is starting he Jr year in college). I went into the Marines, got out, went to college, now I am a teacher. Mt wife never went to college, but she is sharp and has a great job.

It wasnt easy. Most people that get married young get divorced. you are young. I tell my two older daughters to not even think of marriage until AFTER college. Financial independence makes for a more stable relationship. You have gotten good advice and some immature advice, but most of what people have told you is relevant.

What is the rush to get "Engaged?" So you can tell everyone you are engaged? Who gives a shit. You have been together 9 months, trust me, that aint crap, and certainly not long enough for 2 college KIDS. i know you dopnt like hearing that, but trust me, at 22 i was a kid. Just keep dating, get through college together, get your career started, and then if you are still together you can worry about getting married. There is just NO NEED to rush things at your age.

i was extremely lucky in that I LUCKED out and married the perfect person for me. i am selfish, self centered, and not a really good person. My wife is giving, considerate of others, and a really nice person. All of her good stuff avgs out my bad stuff

If you want any advice from someone who has been with the same person for 20 years, just ask. No BS from me bro, I am a straight shooter.

Take everyone's advice, SLOW DOWN.

Plus, you get married and you have to feel guilty about buying all your car audio shit

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

btw, no *** ftl //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

waaaaaaaaat? did u break your pen0r?

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

PIITB

???

http://www.google.com n00b

 

[954runner 10+ year member]

she broke it ;-)

she's smoking hot though.

btw for those interested, i'm an agricultural business major and she's an education major.

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

honestly, why no secks?

 

[kovemaster559 5,000+ posts]

http://www.google.com n00b

ok

 

[954runner 10+ year member]

she thinks it will be painful and is absolutely PARANOID about having kids. she thought she was pregnant a couple months ago, even though we NEVER had *** sooooo yeah haha.

 

[Goindef154 5,000+ posts]

we've practically lived together for the last half year and we see each other literally every day.

Big difference between Almost living together and living togther. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

j00 a virg1n?

 

[reid1boys 10+ year member]

LOL.

She thought she was pregnant and you never had ***? Sounds like she definitely is not ready for marriage.//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 

[ssj2xxgotenxx 10+ year member]

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