so i thought my life was bad before.....

[kAdUkUbOy 10+ year member]

jus found out today my dad has 30 days left to live give or take a few........my divorce got denied today......and my ex wife is trying to fight me on joint custody of my son.....she called dhs on me today.......ohh the joy.....and to top it off.....i dont have another day off till sunday.....wish i could see my dad .....

sorry to hear about your pop!! i hope everything works out for you!! keep your head up and remember that God is always with you.....

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

well the fmla would work....but the problem is i need the money.....and for those that dont know....i lost my mom to cancer in october of last year.......this wouldnt be so hard for me if it didnt keep happening.....seems to me like anytime i get close to a family member they end up dying on me.....jus hard to deal w/ it all.....i'll manage tho.....always do.....got my son to think about

 

[Dustin19 10+ year member]

Jesus christ man. I'm so sorry. NO ONE deserves any of that shit. Good luck bro, keep your head up.

 

[fatryan 5,000+ posts]

Im sorry man. But, definatly, screw your job. Is it really worth not seeing your dad again? If they fire you, then theyre not someone you should be working for anyways, thats just a dick. Keep your head up and dont forget about God, he will always be with you.

 

[vasilios 10+ year member]

wow. im sorry you have to go through all that, bro...its tuff. x2, may god be with you.

 

[scrappy 10+ year member]

Sorry to hear all that. I can feel your pain with your son Im going through the same thing right now with mine. My ex is fighting me for joint custody too. I cant even imagine losing my dad at the same time it is hard enoughas it is. Keep your head up and stay strong. I think losing the money would be worth it to see you dad

 

[Savstyle 10+ year member]

thats harsh man, hopefully the docs r wrong and he pulls thru for longer. Noone shuld have to go thru all that heartache man. My prayers are with and your family.God Bless

 

[traksta15 10+ year member]

ya got my prayers, and u'll get through this, good people always do........

 

[chinny 5,000+ posts]

Wow man, im speechless, i hope the docs can do something to help ur ol man, **** man...life is crazy, just keep ur head up, life is tough. Be as much as u can with ur pops...make him happy man..... **** man, if theirs anything we an all do in this board... say it man, im sure we can donate u some money if u need it... $1 from every will be $1,000+, screw ur job... we can help u.

My best wishes with ur ol man, and you of course.

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

i appreciate the comments and the sentiments.....however i've worked hard to get this job in line .......i'll keep the job......i'll jus have to do w/out much sleep for a while....go see my dad during the day........doubt i'll be sleeping much anyways.......life jus doesnt make sense some times.....the harder you try to do the right thing the more life shits on u

 

[zane 10+ year member]

i appreciate the comments and the sentiments.....however i've worked hard to get this job in line .......i'll keep the job......i'll jus have to do w/out much sleep for a while....go see my dad during the day........doubt i'll be sleeping much anyways.......life jus doesnt make sense some times.....the harder you try to do the right thing the more life shits on u

That's just the way of it sometimes man.

Seems as if you are having all the luck these days.

Sorry to hear the further bad news.

Keep your head up though; and hang on to a little hope. People outlive the odds many times in cases like these.

Take care.

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

that means alot coming from you man....

 

[limitkid7 5,000+ posts]

Sorry to hear about this Mike, let me know what i can do to assit you in these trying times..... You know how to reach me