Ok, here we go. Psychology 101....
Your picture tells a thousand words. Wanna know what folks see? The fact that you don't have a shirt and how you are bowing your head towards the camera shows an egotistical, domineering side. You show the face of "don't **** with me or else". That in itself turns people off. When you think this sort of look demeans, intimidates and demands respect - it does not.
The goatee shows the coverup of someone who is unsure of himself. This is usually grown by folks who have something to cover up - perhaps some personal problems when you were growing up - but is almost always the result of deprivaty of some form. Were you beaten when you were a child?
The cap? Well, that just smells of everything male - either that or you are going bald and you have an inferiority complex. Not to worry, when you reach my age, you begin to accept it.
Regarding all the crap posts in this thread, you poured gas on the flames by responding to everyone. This you will learn not to do as time goes on.