Friends: Can't live with 'em, can't kill 'em.

[lilmaniac2 5,000+ posts]

Yes, I had this happen to a friend of mine.

My friend, lets call him Bob, was very intelligent. Graduated top of his class, National honor society president and had taken 5-7 AP classes, was well on his way to graduating college early and having a good job. Well this dumbass gets bored with school and drops out halfway through his first semester, losing all of his scholarships. He goes back again teh following year on his parents dime and quits again.

Bob, confused and bored with life, can't figure out wtf to do. So what does he do. Joins the army. Ok Bob is a pretty tall guy who has always enjoyed working out so I figure ok this will be good for him. Well Bob goes the week before basic training and finds him a 25ish year old divorce' with a 6 year old kid. She pays him a little attention, maybe even gave him some and sent him on his way to basic.

At basic training this fool writes to this bish and calls her all the time, well as often as you can in basic. I go to his graduation and I can tell that he is already so smitten with this bish there is no coming back, even tho she is a manipulative, untrusting *****. Anyways he comes home from basic before goign to AIT and stays with her the whole time, blowing off all of his other friends and spending only time with her for 2 entire weeks.

So this crazy bish has him completely brainwashed. During his stay at AIT she would get on his myspace page delete comments and emails from his friends, leaving him completely isolated. When he comes back from ait for 2 weeks before being deployed to IRAQ what do you think he does? He marries this crazy bish and makes her beneficiary to his checks and insurance.

While he is over in iraq I get to talk to him on IM some and he tells me about how he is broke, because this bish is spending all his moneys on HER, yes i said it HER, house because thats what she called it, hers.

He is deployed for 18 months and comes back, and finally relizes that this bish is a manipulative *****, the divorce was final 2 weeks ago. Luckily he didnt have a kid that held him attached to this bish, but maybe your friend will end up the same way.

Wow I cant believe I typed that much on CA.com, and nobody is gonna read it.

 

[bterz 10+ year member]

Glad to know im not the only one.

My two best friends for the past two years both have done the same thing.

I introduced one of them to each other and I dont talk to either of them.

And my other friend started dating a chick that has had a crush on me since day 1 and now he ignores me cuz he has no balls and knows his girlfriend wants mine.

I was best friends with him for over two years, now he ignores me cuz of some chick he used to talk shit about.

I should just hit it, then tell him and make sure he's thankful for me letting him know.

 

[tsenfw 10+ year member]

Yes, I had this happen to a friend of mine.
My friend, lets call him Bob, was very intelligent. Graduated top of his class, National honor society president and had taken 5-7 AP classes, was well on his way to graduating college early and having a good job. Well this dumbass gets bored with school and drops out halfway through his first semester, losing all of his scholarships. He goes back again teh following year on his parents dime and quits again.

Bob, confused and bored with life, can't figure out wtf to do. So what does he do. Joins the army. Ok Bob is a pretty tall guy who has always enjoyed working out so I figure ok this will be good for him. Well Bob goes the week before basic training and finds him a 25ish year old divorce' with a 6 year old kid. She pays him a little attention, maybe even gave him some and sent him on his way to basic.

At basic training this fool writes to this bish and calls her all the time, well as often as you can in basic. I go to his graduation and I can tell that he is already so smitten with this bish there is no coming back, even tho she is a manipulative, untrusting *****. Anyways he comes home from basic before goign to AIT and stays with her the whole time, blowing off all of his other friends and spending only time with her for 2 entire weeks.

So this crazy bish has him completely brainwashed. During his stay at AIT she would get on his myspace page delete comments and emails from his friends, leaving him completely isolated. When he comes back from ait for 2 weeks before being deployed to IRAQ what do you think he does? He marries this crazy bish and makes her beneficiary to his checks and insurance.

While he is over in iraq I get to talk to him on IM some and he tells me about how he is broke, because this bish is spending all his moneys on HER, yes i said it HER, house because thats what she called it, hers.

He is deployed for 18 months and comes back, and finally relizes that this bish is a manipulative *****, the divorce was final 2 weeks ago. Luckily he didnt have a kid that held him attached to this bish, but maybe your friend will end up the same way.

Wow I cant believe I typed that much on CA.com, and nobody is gonna read it.

I read it dude! Similar thing happened to a friend of a friend and he's still with the skanky old hoe and her kids scrapping by for rent while she's unemployed!

 

[lilmaniac2 5,000+ posts]

I read it dude! Similar thing happened to a friend of a friend and he's still with the skanky old hoe and her kids scrapping by for rent while she's unemployed!

lol thanks

The dumbass got drunk and went over to her house the other night because she owes him mad money from there joint account she emptied out. He got the hell beat out of him by her new b/f. Note to self when you can barely walk dont pick a fight

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

exactly the same thing happened to me. only i was joe. i was transformed by my psycho ***** ex wife. lost just about every friend i had, and to this day i still cannot get the friendship back. once its lost, its lost. things never go back to normal

waa? with dudes, it should just be like "dude, i fvcked up. but i'm back" ... "you a$$hole ... WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN, HAVE A BEER!" and sh!t should be fine.