Friends: Can't live with 'em, can't kill 'em.

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

My friend's story is all kinda fucked up, but frankly, y'all just don't have the attention span.

 

[Goindef154 5,000+ posts]

Have you ever had a long-time friend who you just completely lose?
I have a friend, let's call him Joe. I've known him for 15 years, and he's always been an oddball, but sane. About a year ago, Joe knocked up his girlfriend, who we will call Jane. Jane is an utter and complete insane psychobitch.

Joe and Jane get married, Joe is transformed by Jane into a completely different person. A person who I no longer know.

So again, I ask... has this ever happened to you?

Yah I'm in the wedding on Nov 22nd //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif:crap:. It is what it is, that's the way I see it, been friends with him for over 6 years. Life is life though and you go off in other directions.

 

[reed dollaz 10+ year member]

Have you ever had a long-time friend who you just completely lose?
I have a friend, let's call him Joe. I've known him for 15 years, and he's always been an oddball, but sane. About a year ago, Joe knocked up his girlfriend, who we will call Jane. Jane is an utter and complete insane psychobitch.

Joe and Jane get married, Joe is transformed by Jane into a completely different person. A person who I no longer know.

So again, I ask... has this ever happened to you?

exactly the same thing happened to me. only i was joe. i was transformed by my psycho ***** ex wife. lost just about every friend i had, and to this day i still cannot get the friendship back. once its lost, its lost. things never go back to normal

 

[Fusion_FREAK 10+ year member]

Ya I miss the simpeler times too:crap: but it shows their true colors. And that's something I don't want in my life. I'd rather be alone, then be around a bunch of back stabbing *****es. Hope everything works out for you man. And Caraudio is all I need In life, besides my kid and booty calls.

Yea, what really pisses me off is that I wasted so much time with them. That's almost 6 years that I lost when I could of met other friends. If I'd of known they would flake on me then, I would have moved on then.

 

[Jep772 10+ year member]

My "best friend" was always a little off. When i moved to Florida in 05 he had a kid that was ~4 months early. then 2 weeks after that kid was born they got prego again and that kid was also real early. one of the kids ended up dying in his crib, so that f'd him up obviously. On top of that in the 2 years i was gone he started goin to the methadone clinic and he's up to 130mg a day and completely gone. he drinks bout 8-10 natty ices a day on top of the done. i can't stand to be around him anymore really, he never shuts up yelling about crazy off the wall paranoid shit

 

[GearGuy2001 10+ year member]

Yah I'm in the wedding on Nov 22nd //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif:crap:. It is what it is, that's the way I see it, been friends with him for over 6 years. Life is life though and you go off in other directions.

x2

but its September 20th

lol

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

My friend's story is all kinda fucked up, but frankly, y'all just don't have the attention span.

Go for it. I'm bored.

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

I've known Joe for 15 years. He got married to psychobitch, and began to change, as I noted in the first post.

Anyhow, about a month back Joe and Jane move in with my friend, let's call her Sally. Sally has a two-bedroom house, and agrees to allow Joe and Jane to live there without paying rent for a month, because they have to get established in their jobs, pay for formula, diapers, etc. Joe and Jane agree to help out with buying food, and bring home lots of pizza since they both work at Pizza Hut. Sally babysits their 2 month old kid while they're working while possible.

Anyhow, Joe and Jane are having trouble paying for necessities, and Sally chips in on diapers and formula. Sally is peeved, because Jane cannot afford formula, yet still buys nick-nacks for the house. After some investigation, Sally finds that Jane is taking the money she earns at work, and is buying weed and pills. Joe is helping cover up her habits, and is allowing this to go on at their baby's expense.

Upon this discovery, Joe and Jane go to Sally's mother's house at 2 in the morning, and proceed to tell her that Sally is unstable and unsafe, and that they are uncomfortable living with her, and having the baby in her presence. Furthermore, they accuse her of smoking crack and abusing their baby. I spend enough time with Sally to know that these claims are completely untrue in every way.

When Sally catches wind of this accusation, she has had enough of their bullshit, and proceeds to lock them out of the house. Jane calls the cops who inform Sally and the landlady that she has no right to kick them out because they are legally residents of the house, even though they pay no rent. In order to have them removed, they must've removed all their belongings and gone elsewhere. So, Joe and Jane have Sally's nuts in a vise and can legally leave at their leisure.

In the meantime, Joe and Jane have moved back in with Joe's parents, and Joe and Jane have taken to harassing Sally, stopping by her house every hour or so in order to get something like socks. Sally has an eviction notice signed to give to them in the morning, so if they don't have their crap gone in 3 days, and they keep harassing her, she can have them arrested for trespassing.

I come into this situation, because Sally needs me to hang out at her house because we have found Jane's weakness: she restrains her psycho babbling bullshit when there are others present. Hopefully, with my presence and Sally's landlady present, Jane will keep the bullshit to a minimum.

I don't know Joe anymore. Ever since he met Jane, he seems to go along with the bullshit. He buys into her lies, and not only that, he has started bullshitting, too. He is just as slimy and dishonest as her. I'm mainly concerned for their baby. The mother is extremely negligent, and Joe is leaving to join the Air Force in a month. 10 bucks says the baby either ends up in foster care, or harmed in some way.

Ain't that some shit.

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

Wow //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wow.gif.23d729408e9177caa2a0ed6a2ba6588e.gif I thought when you said she changed him, you meant he doesn't hang out for guys night as long any more. That's some pretty deep shit.

 

[Fusion_FREAK 10+ year member]

Problem, they had a kid when they didn't need one.

 

[mazzasec 5,000+ posts]

What sucks is I put this kid under my roof when he split up with his ex, he needed a place to stay. I had full trust in him because i would of took a bullet for him, and I thought he would do the same. So me and my ex broke up and it seems like there hanging out more, he's taking her out places, and they look like a couple. After I've treated this ***** better then my own brother. I've sat them both down, explained how wrong and fuked up that would be, but there's that feeling deep down that wont go away.

I am in the exact situation. You see me crying like a little *****? **** no **** your ex ***** and **** your ex friend. You got other friends and theres plenty more hot *****es. You live and learn.

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

Problem, they had a kid when they didn't need one.

Thanks for that insight, Freud. Never woulda figured that out alone.

 

[mazzasec 5,000+ posts]

All you gotta do is rub it in your friends face how you use to nut all in her mouth and shit and how bad he is getting sloppy seconds. Just ask him how you taste

 

[boomzilla 10+ year member]

lmao X2

 

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

Yea, and it really sucks. Me, and 3 other friends were an unbreakable group.
My friend Anthony started to date this girl I've known for over 5 years now, and then my friend Shawn started to date my ***** ex gf about 7 months ago. All shit started when Shawn started to date my ex.

Now we don't talk at all, and I basicly have no friends. Pretty much work and my car is my life now. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

I'll be your friend. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/veryhappy.gif.fec4fed33b4a1279cf10bdd45a039dae.gif:veryhapp: