Crunk Times, My friend.....Crunk Times

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

I downloaded one of the Raven Riley video's that was linked in this thread.. and wow..

Preciate it, hah.

 

[DBfan187 5,000+ posts]

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

why will you only have it 2-3 years, even if you get a better job. By then you could have it paid off and then keep it as a paid off car. I paid my deville off in 3 years, and I plan on keepin it til it dies. Ive had it 5 years now. Even if I buy another car, i will still keep it, im sure.
i gave up on ****, im a virgin.

wipe me down?

I pull up in the club vip gas tank on E but all drinks on me?

So it looks like WSW is wrong...neither me nor 2k is getting married soon.

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[Randy Savage 5,000+ posts]

I wanna get Quiznos for lunch today, but the last 2 days I've gone there hasn't been ANY parking in the parking lot...it's absurd.

This whole $5 large subs fiasco is annoying the shit outta me...yeah, I save a couple bucks...but I have to deal with the 8 people in front of me on line that have never been to Quiznos before and have to ask what is in every single sandwich they make...

 

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So it looks like WSW is wrong...neither me nor 2k is getting married soon.

What is the problem? Just that you don't want to get married soon or is something wrong?

Spill it, you know you want to.

 

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It's not really that funny.

I beg to differ. Humor can be found in everything that happens in life. It's just that from some peoples point of view it may be hard to see.

 

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We broke up.

Was it the reluctance to let her move in the primary factor?

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

It's not really that funny.

I didn't laugh...

We broke up.

oh I'm sorry to hear that flip. I really am. It hurts like hell dude but you'll get over it eventually.

 

[mokedaddy 5,000+ posts]

Well, I iniated the breakup, not her. I feel like I shouldn't hurt but I still do.
The primary motivator is that I simultanously wanted the aspects of being single and being with someone. Not that I wanted to chase other women...more about being alone, reflecting, thinking, and trying to figure out who I am and what I want out of life. I am still trying to gain responsibility and basically just have a good understanding of me...if that makes any sense.

I loved being with her, I really did. I just felt like I was dragging her along while I am so mixed up. She has became a victim to my confusion. I love her so I wanted to quit hurting her. She is so much more mature than me...I feel she knows exactly what she wants from life and I have a hard time picking out clothes to wear to work. She wants to be married with less than four kids. I don't know if I ever want to be married at all. It isn't fair for me to waste away her life only to figure out later that I don't want any of the things that she wants. I feel that when I figure out what I want, I should give her a call and if at that time we want the same things we should get back together.

That kind of sucks short term, but it sounds like you made a mature decision and followed through which is a good start for getting your shit together.

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

Well, I iniated the breakup, not her. I feel like I shouldn't hurt but I still do.
The primary motivator is that I simultanously wanted the aspects of being single and being with someone. Not that I wanted to chase other women...more about being alone, reflecting, thinking, and trying to figure out who I am and what I want out of life. I am still trying to gain responsibility and basically just have a good understanding of me...if that makes any sense.

I loved being with her, I really did. I just felt like I was dragging her along while I am so mixed up. She has became a victim to my confusion. I love her so I wanted to quit hurting her. She is so much more mature than me...I feel she knows exactly what she wants from life and I have a hard time picking out clothes to wear to work. She wants to be married with less than four kids. I don't know if I ever want to be married at all. It isn't fair for me to waste away her life only to figure out later that I don't want any of the things that she wants. I feel that when I figure out what I want, I should give her a call and if at that time we want the same things we should get back together.

flip that's actually a very mature response. really, that's a great reason to end it with someone. Better then the reasons I got //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif. But I respect you a lot for being mature and wanting to end it and you listed great reasons.

That kind of sucks short term, but it sounds like you made a mature decision and followed through which is a good start for getting your shit together.

Agreed.

 

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Well, I iniated the breakup, not her. I feel like I shouldn't hurt but I still do.
The primary motivator is that I simultanously wanted the aspects of being single and being with someone. Not that I wanted to chase other women...more about being alone, reflecting, thinking, and trying to figure out who I am and what I want out of life. I am still trying to gain responsibility and basically just have a good understanding of me...if that makes any sense.

I loved being with her, I really did. I just felt like I was dragging her along while I am so mixed up. She has became a victim to my confusion. I love her so I wanted to quit hurting her. She is so much more mature than me...I feel she knows exactly what she wants from life and I have a hard time picking out clothes to wear to work. She wants to be married with less than four kids. I don't know if I ever want to be married at all. It isn't fair for me to waste away her life only to figure out later that I don't want any of the things that she wants. I feel that when I figure out what I want, I should give her a call and if at that time we want the same things we should get back together.

If I was near you, I'd slap you right now. Honestly. Whether you know what you want or not, it is her choice to break up over that kind of shit, not you. In the end your reasoning was still selfish. Whether she wants 4 kids and a marriage or not, if she is mature like you say, she will also know that relationships are compromise and take time to mature. In the end you did it because YOU wanted time to reflect. Which is fine, but don't go portraying that you did it for her. You did it for your own selfish reasons. If it was too much for her to take then she would have done something about it. All I see in your post is you trying to justify this. That is why you hurt right now.

I just hate when anyone tries to say they broke up with someone because they were saving their feelings. That's always BS. Just state your reasoning. I am not saying your reasons are wrong. They can't be wrong. I just don't buy into the saving my partner from pain BS.

 

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flip that's actually a very mature response. really, that's a great reason to end it with someone. Better then the reasons I got //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif. But I respect you a lot for being mature and wanting to end it and you listed great reasons.


Agreed.

While his reasoning is acceptable. Much better than I just wanted to try other flavors, etc. His portraying it in the light he is not. It isn't that noble. Breaking up with someone is ALWAYS a selfish event by nature.
It should be too.

 

[mokedaddy 5,000+ posts]

While his reasoning is acceptable. Much better than I just wanted to try other flavors, etc. His portraying it in the light he is not. It isn't that noble. Breaking up with someone is ALWAYS a selfish event by nature.
It should be too.

I agree. But he did what he felt he needed to do and who cares how he justifies it? People by nature will always try and spin things their way to avoid feeling guilty.

 

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If I were truly selfish, wouldn't I want to continue to string her along? That way I could have the benefits without worrying about what she was thinking. ie, lie to her to keep her?

I think you're lying to yourself. I think the choice of being strung along or not is hers. Everyone has their point of not taking it anymore.

You want time to yourself and gain independence(all well and good). You want it to the point that you lie to yourself about it being about not wanting to hurt her. Just say you want independence and move on. Why paint it?

 

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I agree. But he did what he felt he needed to do and who cares how he justifies it? People by nature will always try and spin things their way to avoid feeling guilty.

I totally agree. It obviously had to be done. I also know people by nature paint things to make them seem more noble. I also know Flip likes me to shoot it straight. The realization may help him deal with it better.