ok well basically the story goes like this:
backstory: so there is this girl that had dated my good friend(or used to be good friend) for a long time. Anyways she and I hooked up one night, just spur of the moment kind of thing. I felt really really bad afterwards and stopped talking to girl because I couldn't believe what I had done.
side story: azn girl and I are talking seriously after the one night stand happens and I start hooking up with her.
tie story together: the one night stand girl calls me last night saying the ex found out about it and is extremely pissed about it. Which he has every right to be. I was at a party though with the azn and stepped outside to handle the situation for I'd say a good 20 minutes. anyways the azn asks me what's up and I told her somewhat of the situation and she is just like, "wow." she asks me when I did all this happen and just told her before she and I started talking. Anyways the azn says, "you are obviously not ready for anything and I think we should just chill out."
so basically to sum, I've lost a friend I've known for years, won't do anything with one night stand girl because I just won't and now the azn doesn't want anything to do with me because I'm obviously not ready for anything and have to much drama in my life.
end of story.