Crunk Times, My friend.....Crunk Times

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

Preston, it always makes it easier when you take the lead in these things -- as I think you have found out. There is something about maintaining some control and dignity.

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

All i can do is take it for what its worth. A lesson. An opportunity. And at the end of the day this is still a woman i love, i cant justify trying to bring her down when i could just as easily be happy for her.

At any rate, i would like a tour of the south sometime, or at least your part of it. Think that could work out someday?

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

All i can do is take it for what its worth. A lesson. An opportunity. And at the end of the day this is still a woman i love, i cant justify trying to bring her down when i could just as easily be happy for her.
At any rate, i would like a tour of the south sometime, or at least your part of it. Think that could work out someday?

Hell yeah, I could even teach you to play poker. I think you would have a great time at the table.

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

I have a good story, but i will just have to tell you in person someday. Probably wont even be funny then, but twas good.

 

[newusername 10+ year member]

Preston, when people do shitty things, there's a reason. If it is safe to assume that the fault lies with her (and don't be too quick to assume such things), then you can count yourself lucky that you were able to extricate yourself from the situation at this juncture in your life.

I will provide the default advice I always do for people at this age: it is nothing short of a miracle to find someone worth spending your whole life with when you are both still under 30. Even as you advance in age, you are more likely to grow further apart than you are closer together. So get out, do what is enjoyable, and try not to get tied down in a relatively fruitless relationship. It is the storybook romance fantasies that are most crippling to your happiness, I assure you, because they simply don't exist.

That's my "psychiatric advice from the constantly distressed" for the evening.

 

[dcole18 5,000+ posts]

i always enjoy reading your poasts devildriver

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

I have a good story, but i will just have to tell you in person someday. Probably wont even be funny then, but twas good.

Cool, but seriously I would even buy you a rcak of chips if you promised to make a good faith effort at pissing someone off so bad they left the table. One condition -- you have to do it without getting kicked out.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

Preston, when people do shitty things, there's a reason. If it is safe to assume that the fault lies with her (and don't be too quick to assume such things), then you can count yourself lucky that you were able to extricate yourself from the situation at this juncture in your life.
I will provide the default advice I always do for people at this age: it is nothing short of a miracle to find someone worth spending your whole life with when you are both still under 30. Even as you advance in age, you are more likely to grow further apart than you are closer together. So get out, do what is enjoyable, and try not to get tied down in a relatively fruitless relationship. It is the storybook romance fantasies that are most crippling to your happiness, I assure you, because they simply don't exist.

That's my "psychiatric advice from the constantly distressed" for the evening.

Fvcking Canadain bullshit artist is what he is.

Jk, good advice.

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

Preston, when people do shitty things, there's a reason. If it is safe to assume that the fault lies with her (and don't be too quick to assume such things), then you can count yourself lucky that you were able to extricate yourself from the situation at this juncture in your life.
I will provide the default advice I always do for people at this age: it is nothing short of a miracle to find someone worth spending your whole life with when you are both still under 30. Even as you advance in age, you are more likely to grow further apart than you are closer together. So get out, do what is enjoyable, and try not to get tied down in a relatively fruitless relationship. It is the storybook romance fantasies that are most crippling to your happiness, I assure you, because they simply don't exist.

That's my "psychiatric advice from the constantly distressed" for the evening.

For the most part that has been my rationale. In passing she was doing me a favor because i figured this out now, rather than later. I've been trying to explain this too my friend. But my words dont seem to amalgamate to much and thats fine.

I will however punch her in the eye next time we see eachother if you guys think its a good idea.

oh, and heres the guy that taught me about bartending and the liquor world.

red coat wearing English bastard. just did a youtube search on his name. figured i'd share.

 

[newusername 10+ year member]

Forgive me if I missed something: are you a flair bartender? Though I suppose that's not a real position, I think you get my point.

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

Forgive me if I missed something: are you a flair bartender?

no, certainly nothing like what he is. but it has been a hobby/fascination of mine since i worked with him when i was 18, a few years ago. i was fortunate enough to stumble upon not only him but the fantastic nightclub that i worked at.

spirits themselves fascinate me, i'm not crazy about the flair side but its always good for some smiles and amusement. his knowledge on the trade as a whole is extensive. despite my background in psych/soc i never really understood how powerful notions are over perception. he explained a lot to me about how spirits are made, the differences between them, the marketing of them, etc. etc. its amazing how many people would go on and on about how amazing their grey goose martini was when in reality we had given them the well.... things like that. The rationale of the whole deal itself has had a large impact on how i view things in life. I believe i am much more aware because of the seed that he planted.

 

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

Eugenics joining the party at TA's house too? Oh boy! I can't wait!

 

[icpurplepplalot 5,000+ posts]

Eugenics joining the party at TA's house too? Oh boy! I can't wait!

You just want to get at what's on TA's roof //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/tongue.gif.6130eb82179565f6db8d26d6001dcd24.gif

 

[dcole18 5,000+ posts]

lawl

 

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

You just want to get at what's on TA's roof //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/tongue.gif.6130eb82179565f6db8d26d6001dcd24.gif

fat girls on his roof? I thought it was gay guys?! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif