well allow me to tell you...
Brittany and I had been doing better, but had an argument. We decided to spend some time apart (she decided) but work things out. Nothing special, same gravel road in a rocky relationship. I find out a couple days later that she is moving to hutch (a town a few hours away from here) with her friend, who not surprisingly has been one of the most taxing elements of our relationship. I find this out from her mother who slips up. She was not going to tell me, she was just going to go and leave me wondering...
I was pretty upset when i found out, but the next day i just told her flat out that it hurt a lot, but i hoped it worked out well for her, and that i love her very much, and always will... and that i want the very best for her and hope she is turely happy. That i know she will do great things with her life. I told her i did not want to speak to her. Not to punish her, but just for my own sake.
I dont think i've ever had someone do something so shitty to me. If i'm honest though, prior actions of hers have foreshadowed this possibility. However, i would much rather see this side of her now than years down the road when we may have children or a marriage and/or other strong ties together whether they be financial etc.
She is a great person, but good people do shitty things sometimes. She has a lot of growing up to do, she needs to find herself... call it whatever you want. I dont think i've been this happy in a long time though. I was worried something like this would ruin me for a long time. Its so much easier to be optimistic about it. I'm glad i'm not a victim in this game.