Crunk Times, My friend.....Crunk Times

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

It's not really that funny.

it wasnt funny until you said this //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

Well, I iniated the breakup, not her. I feel like I shouldn't hurt but I still do.
The primary motivator is that I simultanously wanted the aspects of being single and being with someone. Not that I wanted to chase other women...more about being alone, reflecting, thinking, and trying to figure out who I am and what I want out of life. I am still trying to gain responsibility and basically just have a good understanding of me...if that makes any sense.

I loved being with her, I really did. I just felt like I was dragging her along while I am so mixed up. She has became a victim to my confusion. I love her so I wanted to quit hurting her. She is so much more mature than me...I feel she knows exactly what she wants from life and I have a hard time picking out clothes to wear to work. She wants to be married with less than four kids. I don't know if I ever want to be married at all. It isn't fair for me to waste away her life only to figure out later that I don't want any of the things that she wants. I feel that when I figure out what I want, I should give her a call and if at that time we want the same things we should get back together.

interesting. took long enough though.

Sounds like a sound financial decision to me. But what do I know.
BTW- people change every 7-10 in drastic ways.

Just when you think you've got yourself figured out this time, you'll discover otherwise.

7-10 days?

It may be selfish but at least his "reasoning," is better than making excuses. It sounds like he actually put "thought," into it rather than just saying, "what can I do to end this."
ya know?

thats what most people do.

yep!


indeed. Of course, now I'm going through, "I can't trust another female ever," right now. So perhaps I am a little bitter. But at least you had good reasons.

see ive been had that cant trust females. But im also on a cant trust anybody thing haha.

I don't want another female. It would be much easier if my goal was to chase ***.

do it.

Chasing tale gets boring after a few years, same girls, same games. Sticking with one nice one is where its at.....

pssshtt. even if you dont get the ***, its still fun. to me at least.

What about men?

heh.

I honestly think you're putting too much thought into the whole situation.

Understatement of 2008 right there.

 

[Banana Balls 5,000+ posts]

7-10 days?

LOLZ oops. That would be years, not days.

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

wat

 

[Randy Savage 5,000+ posts]

meh.
I think I will spend the rest of my day looking at art. It is a nice distraction.

You can pass time by trying to convince me to stop being a cheap fuck and by a friggin HDD.

I decided to pass on the printer, as my g/f realized she has a brand new Epson inkjet sitting at home that she used maybe a handful of times. Then, I thought about how many things I actually print, and decided dropping any money on a new printer wasn't worth it.

Now, I just need to get a HDD, but every time I'm about to buy one, I decide that it's not something I need to spend money on.

It's not that I don't have the money, because I do, it's just that I can't seem to spend money on things unless they are an absolute necessity...or they have something to do with hockey. Because whether or not I need it, if I find a new piece of equipment I want, I buy it. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

I don't want another female. It would be much easier if my goal was to chase ***.

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Chasing tale gets boring after a few years, same girls, same games. Sticking with one nice one is where its at.....

I used to think the same thing, until my last relationship. My trust has just been broken.

I wouldnt call it an AE. I'd love to go back to my MOT acct full time. Don't need that drama right now tho.

lawl.

thats what most people do.

see ive been had that cant trust females. But im also on a cant trust anybody thing haha.

Yep.

maybe days for me...

oh......

 

[Banana Balls 5,000+ posts]

It's not that I don't have the money, because I do, it's just that I can't seem to spend money on things unless they are an absolute necessity...or they have something to do with hockey. Because whether or not I need it, if I find a new piece of equipment I want, I buy it. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif

I have the exact same problem (except for the hockey part). I horde money like a crazy person and hate the feeling of spending it.

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

hey does anyone have that gif of the shark fuking that fat chick? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

 

[Johnny Drama 5,000+ posts]

Time heals all wounds.

You will be fine.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

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I used to think the same thing, until my last relationship. My trust has just been broken.

lawl.

Yep.

oh......

they always say there is that one that ****s men's perceptions of women up and then women wonder why men dont trust them. seems to be true.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif I was finally perma banned at sr.com.

The funny thing is that the reason they gave was that I was a previously banned member trying to sneak in with an AE.

I have only had one accoun there, lol. Those guys are such uber pusses. They are so politically correct there it is painful to watch.

 

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I'm not saying that out of bitterness either, I'm just simply stating that his reasons sound justifiable.

I don't believe anyone is denying that. He has very good reason. I don't like his presentation of claiming it is for her.

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

they always say there is that one that ****s men's perceptions of women up and then women wonder why men dont trust them. seems to be true.

LUCKY ME!

 

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I guess both me and 2k think of selfishness as a "bad" trait.

Oh hell to the no. This is where you need to steer your logic. There is absolutely nothing wrong with taking care of numero uno. Being selfish is not always bad, plain and simple. You have to look out for yourself. ZBeing selfish about EVERYTHING and never trying compromise is bad, but so is everything in over abundance //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

I don't believe anyone is denying that. He has very good reason. I don't like his presentation of claiming it is for her.

oh I see what you are saying now. My fault.

 

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Do you feel that once you figure out whatever it is you need to figure out, you'll want to be with her again?

Yes. I just hope she hasn't moved on

I doubt this actually.