IDK what they are. IMO the best thing you can do is go and talk to her, be non confrontational and honest, make sure you say what you need to but listen to her side as well. Make sure you understand what she is saying, and make sure she knows you're trying to understand her POV.
Beyond that Chris... the world is the world, roll with the punches and understand that you will be fine.
I don't know a whole lot about what's going on, so I can't really give you specific advise, and what I just said may not be right, but it's the best I can do for you man.
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