Re: Hey I am Chrs from Northern VA. Just installed a system...
If your system is properly installed and setup there will be very little difference from one song to the next, provided that the recordings are of similar or equal quality. Certainly not enough that you would have to fiddle with settings that often. In fact, I go from hip hop to metal to 90s alternative without ever touching anything other than the volume knob on my system and it sounds great whether it's on CD, USB or bluetoothed in from my tablet.
You say you set your gains properly so I'm assuming you used a scope or a distortion detector to do so and that only leaves head unit or crossover settings on the amps as the culprit. How do you have those set?
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