ok so ill be straight up with what i need/like in the HU i want

double din with at least 5 inch screen
3 pre-outs (voltage doesnt matter i have a line driver)
pause button (for burps)
remote
volume knob instead of volume buttons (better for rolling into burps)
brand: pioneer, clarion, alpine, maybe another good brand?
price: 400 shipped

heres the ebay listing i narrowed down. i have the pioneer avh-3100dvd now and like it but want a little better (its actually sending a bad signal through the RCAS so i gotta replace it)

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