THE PROBLEM WITH THE RCA's WAS A FADER BUTTON ON MY KICKER AMP!!! I kept thinking I had already tried that, but then I had remembered it was out not in, and on kicker amps out doesn't mean off it means ON! So I pushed it in and it reversed the RCA's so now my mids were getting the tweeter crossovers like they should have been since they were in the rear output on the HU!!!!! So I swapped RCA's on the amp and now I'm positive that a new set of tweets will complete this install!! YAY!
Thanks guys! Someone with a Phoenix Gold amp mentioned this on my other thread (the idea that it might be a button on the amp) and it worked! YOUR THE BOMB!