Hey guys i took all your advice and just sat there forever tuning stuff up. I figured my problem. without MX on you get almost no bass. Plus i had my bandwidth set at 3 wghich also makes less base. It distorted early because the EQ curve needed to be changed. I left it flat to start. No i have it at 80 (was 63) made BIG difference. also i changed the width to wider.
what through me at first was they are no labbled "bass" or "trebble" settings. i dug out the physics book and found out what bandwidths and stuff were.
THe thing that was wrong was i didnt know how to take the bass out of the speakers, and increase the bass for the subs. Now its all good and im happy with this deck